{"id":396,"date":"2012-01-31T03:08:04","date_gmt":"2012-01-31T09:08:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/?p=396"},"modified":"2012-01-31T14:33:33","modified_gmt":"2012-01-31T20:33:33","slug":"drive-by","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/?p=396","title":{"rendered":"Drive By"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve written and re-written this post so many times it&#8217;s not even barely funny anymore. You can&#8217;t force a post out of me after all, haha. But anyway, an update is due to say the least.<\/p>\n<p>Train&#8217;s new single, &#8220;Drive By&#8221; isn&#8217; the most lyrically advanced work of theirs to say the very least. It&#8217;s similar to &#8220;Hey Soul Sister&#8221; in the sense that it&#8217;s very catchy and a tad bit poppy, but it&#8217;s not an emotional song by any meaningful means. All that being said, I love the song. Haha, it&#8217;s infectiously catchy.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s get this out of the way because, seriously, by now it&#8217;s expected anyway lol. Jessy sent me two covers this past weekend (if memory serves me correctly). A rather pleasant surprise if I may say so &#8211; and I&#8217;ll stop there to avoid sounding like a 12-year-old schoolboy, and to top it off I managed to sneak about an hour or so of conversation with my mum. <\/p>\n<p>Which, for those keeping track, makes this the second time in two weeks. Something very, very rare. She&#8217;s usually busy, or I am, or we&#8217;re both tired. Even though the news she brought wasn&#8217;t the best &#8211; my brother&#8217;s confirmed not to be coming &#8211; I&#8217;m still happy I got to talk to her. I was hoping really hard to have my brother come. We&#8217;re a tad bit overdue for some bonding time and I haven&#8217;t seen him in awhile. There are things here that I&#8217;d like to show him that I believe he&#8217;d appreciate, and I&#8217;d still like to have some semblance of influence over his growth.<\/p>\n<p>Heck, if anything, that kid needs to tone down on his flirting lol.<\/p>\n<p>And no, this isn&#8217;t jealous brother speaking haha. Which reminds me of something funny last night, a conversation with this rather cute girl I met awhile back took a turn to the &#8220;holywtf&#8221; arena when she invited me over to her place. I&#8217;ll take it as a joke, since she doesn&#8217;t live anywhere close, but&#8230; yeah. She was a reporter from another college that came to visit and talked to me.<\/p>\n<p>You know, cause I&#8217;m all charming and whatnot. Not because I&#8217;m the editor-in-chief. Sarcasm much.<\/p>\n<p>On the opposite sex front (you knew this was coming), nothing much has changed. Which I guess would be a blessing, seeing as my last foray was a mistake of epic proportions. Well, not entirely true there (about nothing changing), but I&#8217;ve to constantly remind myself that a bro does not get involved in another bro&#8217;s relationship. It&#8217;s the whole &#8220;Anazthasya dilemma&#8221; again &#8211; and yes, that&#8217;s a thing now.<\/p>\n<p>There are certain exceptions to a bro-vention (read: bro-intervention) though. Such as when Mr Hard\/Yi Man\/Glard intervened last December. But those are extreme situations where an intervention is required to SAVE a bro.<\/p>\n<p>So yes, Kai, stay-the-heck-away. <\/p>\n<p>I can hear my sister giggling all the way from New Jersey. And I still think of the whole thing as rather serendipitous. But then, it&#8217;s no secret that I&#8217;m a hopeless romantic and I draw far too many lessons from cheesy movies and sitcoms.<\/p>\n<p>Now that I&#8217;ve received my award(s), it&#8217;s time to fire off my second wave of resumes. Commence orbital bombardment and all that snazzy jazz. It&#8217;s also time for me to re-harass the many jobs that haven&#8217;t gotten back to me as well.<\/p>\n<p>There are certain jobs I&#8217;d go anywhere as long as I get the job (MintPress), but there are certain places where I&#8217;d take any job just to be there. It&#8217;s a conundrum for me really. That, and the fact that I can actually see myself establishing a career in many fields. I can see myself being a full-time photographer, because I may not be marvelous but I&#8217;m certainly good. I was thinking of applying to Red Bull, since I&#8217;ve done a fair bit of freelance work for them.<\/p>\n<p>I can see myself working in a magazine setting, I&#8217;ve certainly the knowledge and skill to do magazine layout and design, and I can definitely write feature-styled stories easily. Not to mention it was my original desire, to work on a less stressful environment in a slightly more &#8220;posh&#8221; world. Read: Techy.<\/p>\n<p>I can see myself working for web publications. AOL network, the former Gawker network.<\/p>\n<p>I can see myself working for a print publication, traditional or otherwise. Or a combination of both, such as, well, HuffPost or MintPress.<\/p>\n<p>I can certainly see myself being a concert or event photographer as well. Goodness graciousness knows I have the ability to do those wonderfully. <\/p>\n<p>I can see myself being an embedded reporter too (war journalist).<\/p>\n<p>I can see myself doing way too many things, and none of that would be &#8220;settling&#8221; either. I&#8217;m multifaceted enough that I&#8217;d survive in many fields, and I&#8217;m also passionate enough that I would thrive in quite a few. It helps a great deal when you realize passion and skill can be developed.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I&#8217;m at work right now and I really shouldn&#8217;t drag this too much, lest I end up frustrated and deleting the entire post again.<\/p>\n<p>Last note, call this the arrogant cocky narcissistic Ben\/Kai, but I&#8217;d be really surprised if I do not graduate with a job offer at hand. There are many things that I am not good at, and not confident about, and I would be the first to admit them as well; but I know for a fact that I&#8217;m an extremely eligible graduate. Definitely not the most, as I know a select few people that are far more involved, far better reporters, far better photographers, but few if any offer the package (haha, sexual reference there) that I have.<\/p>\n<p>Pssh. To quote The Calling, &#8220;don&#8217;t hate me, cause I&#8217;m just that good.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve written and re-written this post so many times it&#8217;s not even barely funny anymore. You can&#8217;t force a post out of me after all, haha. But anyway, an update is due to say the least. Train&#8217;s new single, &#8220;Drive By&#8221; isn&#8217; the most lyrically advanced work of theirs to say the very least. It&#8217;s&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/?p=396\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Drive By<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-private","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=396"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.ink-cafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}